Simple ways to adjust your “Longitude”
PRACTICE RANDOM KINDNESS
Go out of your way to lend a hand or say something nice to someone without being asked. Put a quarter in a parking meter that’s about to expire, help a woman with her groceries, give $20 to a homeless person you see daily. You will be surprised by how good helping someone makes you feel.
LOOK FOR BEAUTY AROUND YOU
Stopping to find the beauty around you is a sure way to erase those frown lines from your forehead. When you feel a negative mood coming on, look around you. Notice the flowers, the shapes of the clouds, the texture of a piece of pottery, the plumage of a bird. Anything can be beautiful when you look at it with a sense of wonder and gratitude.
TALK WITH PEOPLE
Isolation kills. Company saves. One of the reasons Okinawans have one of the longest life spans in the world is that they usually belong to a moai, a mutual support network of family and friends that goes back decades. Make a point of talking to someone close to you every day. If you can, have lunch or share a walk. Few things make you feel more connected than shared history.
LIVE IN THE MOMENT
We all rush around at such great speed that we are always looking ahead. What’s next? What’s on my list? At least once each day, stop and be in the moment, using all your senses: sight, hearing, taste, smell, touch. It might be in the produce section at the grocery store-it doesn’t matter. Stop and just be. Appreciate being where you are, doing what you are doing. Ask yourself what is memorable about this moment.
When all else fails and you feel a foul mood overtaking you like a storm cloud, take a moment and reflect on how lucky you truly are. You are alive. You have endless potential and possibilities. Things are never as bad as they seem. Think of ten things for which you are truly thankful.
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